Dear Black Woman: From a Man Who Still Believes in Love

Rev. Timothy D. Hayes Jr.

Published on: 13/11/2025

In this powerful, unfiltered open letter, Pastor Timothy D. Hayes Jr. speaks directly to modern Black women about love, independence, and healing in today’s culture. From the rise of “I don’t need nobody” energy to the way music, trauma, and social media have reshaped relationships, this piece offers a real man’s perspective on what’s missing — and what still matters. It’s raw, relatable, and reflective, reminding readers that while times have changed, good men still crave real women: authentic, grounded, peaceful, and whole.

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“Dear Love: A Letter to This Generation”

Rev. Timothy D. Hayes Jr.

Published on: 13/11/2025

We’re living in a time where loyalty got limits and commitment got conditions. People fall in love quick but fall out of it even faster. Everybody’s scared to trust, but still crave connection. We got too many options and not enough honesty. It’s like people just want to be loved for the idea of them — not the reality of who they are.

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Fighting the Feeling: Protecting Your Progress at All Costs

Rev. Timothy D. Hayes Jr.

Published on: 23/08/2025

This blog is a raw, heartfelt letter about fighting temptation, breaking free from old habits, and protecting your progress. It challenges readers to resist temporary pleasures, embrace true healing, and start a journey—whether spiritual, financial, or personal—that leads to lasting peace and purpose.

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When the Scissors Hit, So Did Freedom

Rev. Timothy D. Hayes Jr.

Published on: 23/08/2025

After 16 years with locs, I finally did the big chop. What I thought was just a haircut turned into a release—of weight, habits, and memories. This is my story of freedom, change, and embracing a new season.

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